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October 4, 2009
Happy Birthday Daddy
For Daddy's birthday, Elizabeth decided to show off her assisted standing skills....
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October 3, 2009
Ottawa Breastfeeding Challenge

In honour of World Breastfeeding Week, Elizabeth and I participated in Ottawa's version of the 2009 Breastfeeding Challenge this morning.  I'd heard of it before of course and thought it was a really weird concept.  I still think so even AFTER participating, but my friend Dianne talked me into it...

 

Plus, I heard there were going to be loot bags and I wasn't misled.  I didn't win any of the 19 door prizes, but I did get a somewhat entertaining pamphlet from the City of Ottawa exhorting us to create five emergency preparedness kits.  In case of winter storms.  And "service interruptions".  They suggested that each kit contain enough food and water for our family for three days, but I don't think we're going to start lugging around three days worth of water in the car...  We also received some bandaids, a nifty water bottle, some disinfectant, a canvas bag, a breastfeeding challenge button and many, many handouts.  I haven't really had time to sift through all the paper, but I did spot a $5 off coupon to the Extraordinary Baby Shoppe which I suspect will get used...

 

The actual event was bemusing, but not as militant as I had feared after reading some reactions last year.  We showed up around 10:15am or so and then milled around trying to stay out of the way of the cameras until someone told me to take a seat.  Then I bounced Elizabeth on my knee and briefly talked to a few other moms for the next twenty minutes or so.  Elizabeth was fascinated by all of the other babies.  I was just a teeny bit bored.  When the event started, we listened to some woman speak about emergency preparedness and breastfeeding.  She started out by explaining that getting swine flu is not a reason to stop breastfeeding.  Given that 90% of the women there seemed associated with the La Leche League and certainly all rather die-hard breastfeeders, I wasn't entirely sure who she was talking to.

 

Anyway, she mercifully ran out of time at 11am.  The organizers started a countdown.  Babies (and quite a number of toddlers) were all allowed to eat.  Once latched, we raised our hands to be counted.  Elizabeth ate for 30 seconds since she was way too excited to see what was going on, but we did get counted.  And for the record - I did not flash my nipples at anyone...

 

Then it was all over.  Definitely weird, and I'm doubtful as to how the event benefits the promotion of breastfeeding (through the media coverage I suppose), but we did have fun.

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September 30, 2009
Healthy Girl

As a parent, my biggest pet peeve is when people ask me "what is wrong with my little boy?" or "I'm so sorry that your little boy is ill".  I understand that baby gender can be difficult to figure out, but usually pink frilly dresses tell their own story.  The assumption of illness is a bit more annoying.  I'll never understand why some people think it is appropriate to literally run after a total stranger (one man was so upset that for a second I thought that something was actually wrong with Elizabeth), to point and stare ("aww... look at the sick little baby", said a mom to her kid) or to ask in a hushed tone of voice if anything can be done.  I feel great empathy for children who are actually sick because it must be heartbreaking to be trying to live a normal life and be continuously reminded of the sickness by ignorant clods with foot-in-mouth disease.

 

Our pediatrician had referred us to a specialist to to have her hemangiomas or strawberry patches checked out, and we'd spent the last five months waiting for an appointment.  Several weeks ago they called with a date in January, which was then bumped to today ("I don't want to alarm you, but our appointments are triaged by the surgeons and they would like to see Elizabeth sooner rather than later", said the receptionist)

 

So Elizabeth visited CHEO today.  Most of her birthmarks appeared when Elizabeth was a few weeks old.  She has eleven or twelve that are visible - four on her head (or five, if you count the one on her nose as two), three on her torso, one on her hand, one on her thigh, one on her bum and one on her toe.  The ones on her hand and toe were present from birth, but the others appeared gradually after a few weeks.  Hemangiomas usually grow for the first six months, and then start to disappear.  Most disappear entirely.

 

Five hours and three clinics later (plastic surgery, dermatology and the blood lab) we had one tired, hungry and slightly cranky girl.  That would be me - Elizabeth is a good baby!  Although not too keen on sitting around without clothes on for hours while strangers looked up her nose with a flashlight, Elizabeth behaved extremely well.  We won't talk about the attempt to pee on the dermatology resident.  Even the vampires that took four vials of blood got a smile, though she definitely didn't enjoy that part.  At least Brendan and I think it was four vials.  I cowered in the corner as is my wont while Daddy focussed on holding down baby and not passing out. 

 

The plastic surgeon (Dr. Duncan) was very interesting.  She commented that ten years ago all hemangiomas like Elizabeth's would be simply monitored until adolescence.  Now, they might try to take them out at the early stage (back when they looked like small scratches).  They are still figuring out how best to treat them.  As her pediatrician had already said, surgery too early can leave scars that will grow with the child.  Dr. Duncan believes that Elizabeth should be monitored but that we probably won't need to do anything right away.  She suggested that we may want to do something about the ones on the side of the nose before Elizabeth starts pre-school, as children can be very cruel.  Food for thought.  She then walked us over to the Dermatology clinic for our next appointment.  They do these appointments together because a direct referral to dermatology has a waiting list of at least a year!  We were quite impressed with how smoothly the two groups work together.

 

We met a number of other parents and babies with hemangiomas in the waiting room for the dermatology clinic.  Most of the other babies only had one or two hemangiomas but these had grown so rapidly and to such sizes that they caused big problems.  One little girl lost the hearing in her ear.  Another was unable to close her mouth.  Both are now doing much better after several rounds of medications.  We're pretty thankful that Elizabeth's seem to be mostly cosmetic.  The blood tests were ordered to check that they aren't causing thyroid or heart problems, as apparently the extra blood vessels can cause the heart to work too hard.  We'll be getting an ultrasound to rule out hemangiomas in the liver next week and then I guess we'll find out what next at a follow up appointment two weeks from now.  For now it sounds like they expect to be simply monitoring the hemangiomas since they seem to have stabilized in size.

 

I was most surprised by the apparent lack of baby facilities at the children's hospital.  "Where's the washroom?" I asked one employee.  Perhaps she didn't notice Elizabeth, but she directed me just inside the neonatal unit where I discovered a pedestal sink, a toilet, and no other facilities suitable to changing a diaper.   Downstairs we discovered a pair of washrooms with the baby changing sign prominently displayed. One was intended for fathers, and the other for mothers.  The "change table" consisted of a longer sink counter covered in soap and water.  Elizabeth isn't fond of strange toilets and is particularly suspicious of public toilets due to the gap at the front.  These may be designed for ease of cleaning, but they are not that compatible with natural infant hygiene! 

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September 28, 2009
Seven Months Old
Elizabeth is seven months old today!  Perhaps we've overdone the pictures with the bear.  Apparently the kind of crawling she does (bum high in the air, straight arms and legs) is called "bear crawling".
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September 26, 2009
Gatineau Park

Gatineau Park has been in the news lately as the NCC conducts public consultations on its new recreational services plan.  We thought we'd take Elizabeth to check out the fall foliage and investigate the latest iteration of the Champlain Lookout trail.  Turns out the leaves are still pretty green.  We could have figured this out using the NCC's Color Meter which indicates the percentage of coloured leaves and tells you whether the leaves are at their peak or not, but when it comes to hiking and admiring God's creation we feel technology is no substitute for personal experience...

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