Lent this year seemed kind of rushed. Although we have traditions it seemed like we were always just not quite managing to do anything we'd planned to mark it "appropriately" from the moment we missed the Ash Wednesday service due to everyone being sick.
And then Holy Week began and somehow between Palm Sunday and Maundy Thursday things seemed to settle down. It helped that Elizabeth has been sleeping a tiny bit better, I expect. We took Elizabeth to the foot washing service (Matthew stayed home and pretended he was never ever going to sleep again with Auntie Janice) and Elizabeth asked to wash Daddy's feet and then her friend Karis washed her feet. It was a really great service and I was so glad that we went. Elizabeth clearly loved being treated as "grown up" and not having to share our attention with Matthew for a few hours.
The Good Friday service was beautiful as well. Matthew was quite taken by the request to draw his sins on a piece of flash paper ("Do you know what sins are?" "Naughties!!!" said with great glee). Both kids very impressed by the result of all our papers disappearing in a giant whooshing fireball.
The whole family got together after church on Good Friday to decorate eggs and make (eat!) resurrection rolls. Erika did her whole egg with the hot wax, but the other kids all had to paint with food colouring. Elizabeth and Maria got to write their names using hot wax and under supervision. Elizabeth was very proud, until she managed to dump hot wax all over her finger raising a small blister. After that she was pretty much done for the evening.
Actually, all the kids were getting squirrelly by then and it was a beautiful day so we kicked them outside to play. We tried very briefly to get a calendar picture but as you can see from the one photo I actually took the kids were not feeling cooperative.
Everyone stayed for lasagna and coleslaw for supper. The coleslaw used the recipe from that time Dave was on TV, which was interesting enough information to get Elizabeth to try it (it's rather spicy, but I made a mild version). Brendan laughed at me for making two full-sized lasagnas but they were demolished in very short order, partly because we didn't get around to garlic bread and partly because the kids have hollow legs ;)
Hopefully by the time the kids are teenagers groceries will be delivered by drone because otherwise we're going to spend all our time at the grocery store...
The forecast called for +12C, so it was rather shocking to wake up to -5C and 2cm of snow!
These pictures were taken in the morning and the afternoon of the same day. It was rather challenging to figure out what clothing Elizabeth should wear to school (rain boots? winter boots? splash pants? snow pants?)
She came home with baby bunny from the "boîte à surprises" (surprise box) that they get to choose from if they have a certain number of stars for good behaviour during the week. She was ecstatic to inform us that she additionally received the bunny ears because she was "the goodest in the afternoon of all the friends"
It's tradition to take belly shots with my other pregnant friends and family members. Amusingly, I've always been pregnant at the same time as one of my sister-in-laws, and Dianne and I also tend to overlap. (She's due any day now....)
I had a prenatal appointment recently and I was asked "how many weeks pregnant are you?"
I'm pretty sure I used to know this information during my first two pregnancies, but this time I lost track somewhere in the first trimester. It doesn't seem like critical information somehow.
I agreed to go for my glucose sugar test and then promptly failed it. Dr Gravelle was quite reassuring at the follow-up appointment though and I was relieved when her expectation that I'd pass the two hour version turned out to be accurate. So no gestational diabetes here after an anxious week or so while I envisioned everyone else eating all the Easter candy without me... (Okay, so clearly Easter isn't just about the treats but still...)
I'm told that in the last week or so I've become much more visibly pregnant. I certainly feel extremely pregnant. It also feels wrong to be pregnant past the end of February... Sadly there are many weeks yet to go. At least I have a definite end date!
I had Raynaud's with all three pregnancies and this one is no exception. On the plus side it should become less of a problem as it warms up. Less manageable (but familiar) is leg cramps that happen while I am sleeping. During the day I can avoid triggering these extremely painful muscle spasms but not so much at night. It's a pretty shocking way to wake up and the pain lingers for hours. Around the time that Brendan's dad died I started having them multiple times a night - not sure if it's stress related but definitely not welcome, especially when everyone tells me that the cause is unknown and therefore there isn't much that can be done to prevent them.
There's lots of kicking going on now, which both Elizabeth and Matthew find quite fascinating. I cannot tell whether Amelia is breech or transverse but she's definitely one of the two and seems to have settled into a favourite position. It's about the same time that the other two picked their final positions too so I'm feeling like it would have been a C-section even if she was number one instead of number three. The only problem is that she is pressing into my diaphragm most of the time, leaving me constantly short of breath to the point of pins and needles in my lips.
Also annoying: my bellybutton has popped out. Matthew thinks this is the most interesting thing ever. He's constantly trying to peek at other people's bellybuttons (to compare?), not to mention trying to poke mine. I find this less cute than his assertion that Mommy has a baby in her tummy and he has a dragon in his (RAHRRR)!
But in the grand scheme of things these are minor complaints. Sure, it would be great to have a little more energy with which to wrangle the rather energetic children we have been blessed with. But all in all I'd say that things are going well and I'm feeling fine.